The most effective way to put a narcissist in their place is to recognise the game they’re playing—and stop playing it. Narcissists thrive on power, control, and emotional reactions. When you no longer respond the way they expect, you take that power away. Stay calm. Don’t attack back, no matter how tempting it is. They want a reaction so they can shift blame or play the victim. Refuse to take responsibility for things that aren’t yours. Narcissists love to project their faults onto others—don’t